Monday, July 11, 2016

Day 49 - Agreements Continued..



Things have been better between me and Crystal. We are putting a lot of work in the agreement. I’m working on realigning our vocabulary with that which is best for all within the agreement. However she still feels compelled to use words like ‘love’ and ‘like’ and such to express her contentment or satisfaction within our agreement which I do not feel is necessary vocabulary within the context of what we are walking together. I also see that usage of this vocabulary was from the perspective of reassuring to herself that she is still interested in our agreement and going further with it from the perspective of spending more time together and maybe taking further steps such as living together. And at the very least that she cares about us in some way. 

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