Defining, Redefining, and Living Words
A word that has been on my mind lately is the word FuckBoy.
So this word is very prevalent in American culture these days and it has a lot of
connotations that denote a disrespect for somebody. When the word fuckboy comes
up in my mind I think it’s a guy that likes to fuck. I haven’t put very much
emphasis on the cultural trend of how people have been defining this word rather
I have sort of in my mind organized the existence of this word and also have examined
what the practical implications of the judgment of this word as the living representation
of another human being. Such as I realize that in the mind what we judge we
sort of become in a way. So all the people degrading this word and judging this
word and judging people as representations of this word in the most degrading
connotation will actually become this word in their living manifestations as
the same degrading connotation they have placed upon it and used it to judge
another in their world/reality. So for me a ‘fuckboy’ really denotes nothing of
any real significance other than somebody who wants/likes to fuck. Whether or
not they decide to stay with the person they have sex with is really where the
degrading connotation has come from I think. As in it’s a guy who just wants to
have sex and then leave and never wants to hold a relationship down. So I guess
you would say that I have already sorted gone through the process of defining
and redefining this word within my mind but not in writing. Wherein I saw the
simple definition of this word as I was curious about its implications and its
existence being highly prevalent within young people’s culture today and
especially rap/hip hop culture. So initially I did have some reactions to it
because I felt it to be degrading. Then I looked at the word within the context
of how I look at words, how I see words, and how I define words within the
context of my existence and how I view reality and saw nothing wrong with ‘a
fuckboy’. Because when I looked at the word ‘fuckboy’ all I see is a man or
maybe a young man that likes to fuck. And whats wrong with that? I think where
we get in trouble with words is the judgment of words and/or the judgment of
people that we have placed a specific word or connotation of a word to
represent that person within our minds because essentially we become the living
embodiment of what we judge and/or what we judge other people as.
Defining Fuckboy within myself: A guy that has no respect for women and vice versa. A man that can't keep down a relationship. A man that is 'only good for a fuck' in a woman's eyes.
Redefining 'Fuckboy' within myself: A man that has a cock and has sexual needs just like everybody else.
Defining Fuckboy within myself: A guy that has no respect for women and vice versa. A man that can't keep down a relationship. A man that is 'only good for a fuck' in a woman's eyes.
Redefining 'Fuckboy' within myself: A man that has a cock and has sexual needs just like everybody else.
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