Wednesday, January 2, 2013

Wishful Thinking - Be careful what you wish for

Be careful what you wish upon another because these same experiences could land on your doorstep. This is the key - being honest with yourself about who you are as what you would like to have for yourself as well as other people. So be careful about your wishes for another because this could reach and happen to you. Being honest with one's self starts with finding your actual well-being. Instead of using/abusing yourself for a fleeting second of momentary bliss - you can actually find how this moment of bliss may be self-deceiving and therefore not what is best for you. Moments of bliss are not always the best ways to go about creating actual well-being. One can see this even in these moments of bliss such as listening to music or smoking a cigarette - it is nice while it lasts but the high wears off - and you are not any better than you were before - just a momentary bliss happened - so actual well-being can be created through long term delayed satisfaction - doing what it takes to find actual well-being - and you will find that when your well-being is not so good you will have nasty thoughts, judgments, etc.. towards everything.

How does finding actual well-being and your wishes upon others go hand in hand? Well when you are so unhappy internally you will externally(well internally) create the wishes upon others that will reflect what you are experiencing inside yourself(so if you are unhappy you may create the wish for others to be unhappy as well). So this is in essence self-defeating because you are creating a heap of shit within yourself for the purposes of your own mind's pleasure which is doom and annihilation of yourself - because you are allowing the mind to reign supreme instead of taking your power back and directing you to find you in actual well-being.

So lets find actual well-being within and inside ourselves first because this will lead to something great within and without. Principles help you decide what is best because in principle nothing stops you from taking your self-honesty to the extreme - meaning you decide when to allow self-dishonesty and when not to - so self-honesty is linked to well-being - and you must decide.

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